Transform Your Sexual Pleasure

Research confirms sexual pleasure gives us physical and emotional benefits. There is no age limit. People who have sex live longer.

“Post-menopause, women have a new brain: with more emotional mastery, self-confidence, determination, sense of worth, empathy, ability to sustain joy. They don’t overreact to negative situations or sweat the small stuff.” —Dr. Lisa Mosconi

Harness the neuroplasticity of your brain to develop new mindsets about love and sexual pleasure that replace negative thoughts and actions with the positive thoughts and actions you want. Communicate to connect with words and touch that convey understanding, desires, and mutual gratification.

Sea Buckthorn and Cannabis, ancient medicinal plants have healing power for vaginal dryness and can stimulate sexual desire and enhance pleasure.

Learn about your body and know the ‘what’ and ‘how’ of female and male genitalia.

Plan intentional ‘playdates’ for sexual pleasure where the setting, preparation, and time support the erotic. “Eroticism: vitality, curiosity, spontaneity, and feeling alive.” —Esther Perel

Why write about sex at 80?

What would motivate an  80-year-old woman to write a book about the Best Sex Ever After Menopause?

At this time in the Zeitgeist when women are uniting and standing up for their human rights, Carol Remz is compelled to dispel the ugly and false narratives about women’s sexuality and power after menopause.

Menopause hit Carol in her mid-forties, bringing about a loss of libido and vaginal dryness over the next ten years. Her husband, seven years her junior, wouldn’t accept her declaration that sex wasn’t supposed to matter after menopause. And surviving two bouts of breast cancer lit her fire to live life to the fullest.

After she reclaimed her sexuality, her husband said, “Write a book. Tell your story about how you healed and changed.” Before she could raise any objections, he added, “Get help.” That came from medical and health writer and intimacy coach, Molly Carter.

Best Sex Ever After Menopause offers a new paradigm of senior sexual pleasure: like fine wine made from mature vines and cultivated with love. Definitely better with age!